"I'm interested in your choice of bullets, any standouts that you can share?"
For jacketed bullets, there is only one; The Remington 200 RNCL. It was made for that cartridge and, in many respects, it made the cartridge!
Indeed, the Core-loct always performs well, both penetrating and expanding. I've never recovered one as they've all been pass throughs, dropping the game almost immediately.
Others shoot as accurately but none I've seen expand as reliably at .35 speeds. I do use Hornady 200 RN if I get caught short, it does shoot well and is a killer too but it was made for the speeds of a .358 or .350/.35 Whelen and does NOT expand as well at reduced speeds as I would like. That sorta means the deer will run a few more yards for a similar hit than with the Remington pill.
Never tried pistol bullets but suspect they would be too far the other way, likely to rupture too fast. And never tried cast in mine either so....?