I recommend the Lee Breechlock Challenger kit. This differs from the Anniversary kit in that the Challenger comes with a hand primer. I recommend that because I think you're likely to not have trouble with the hand primer. Plus, it's a tad faster than on the press as is with the Anniversary kit. I studied them both thoroughly before I decided on the Challenger kit, but that was more than a year ago now. As you can tell, I'm not quite an old hand at this reloading business, but rather just another new guy.
It will not come with a manual (not the Kits we're talking about here), so I agree with the others to get the Lee Modern Reloading manual, and maybe the Lyman or another that you think you'll like.
I can't remember if mine came with dies or not, but it did come with everything else I needed except cartridge components. Of course, there are other things you'll
want later, but the Lee kit was complete to get going. If you do have to get dies, I recommend the Deluxe die sets if they have them in your caliber. That set will include a Collet Neck sizer which you'll appreciate once you have it and get going. If no Deluxe sets are available, get the Pacesetter set and order a Collet neck sizer when you can.
All the Lee kits will come with primer pocket cleaner, case length guage for caliber you specify, case trimmer, lockstud and shellholder (for trimming), scale, powder dispenser, and I think a tube of sizing lube.
Both Midway and Kempfgunshop are comparable in price and availability. The Kits will be the same regardless where you buy them. The exception to this is if you buy a Lee Classic Turret press
Kit. These Kits are sold by Kempf and Cabelas, and I believe they are pieced together by each vendor, as opposed to being assembled into Kit form by Lee. My preference if I went that route would be Kempf. A call to them would clear up any questions without an undue amount of "corporate jockeying" around you might get at the big companies. At Kempf, you'll be talking directly to
the guy (probably Kempf himself) putting your stuff in the box. That makes it easy to say "Oh. I didn;t know that wasn't included. Well, throw one of those in the box. Put two of these in there too". And so on. I'm impressed with that little company, and, generally speaking, when it comes to Lee stuff I look to their website first.
Later, you will want other accessories: tumbler maybe, a digital scale for quickly checking loads, a powder trickler, maybe a bench-type deprimer made for those hard to decap berdan-primed cases, More manuals will follow. I'm a yearling and already I've found the "need" to buy several manuals, maybe several more than I truly need (

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I saved this for last: Maybe the first thing to do is get the "ABC's of Reloading" before buying any equipment. Maybe..... (now that that's out of the way.......)