I'm going to purchase a pieta 1858 new army .44 cal. at Cabela's in a few days and was curious about how y'all like to load your revolvers. I've heard of a number of ways to go about loading, like 'use no patch and just put some lubricant in each chamber after loading' and 'patch goes between the ball and powder' and ' patch goes on top of the ball after loading.' I understand that if you load it wrong, a chainfire can cause your gun to blow up. Also, what is your preferred caliber (round ball) to shoot out of a .44?