In handguns the .25, 30, .32, .38, 9mm, .357 (both Magnum and Sig) .40 S&W and .45 GAP all take small pistol primers.
The .38/40,, 10mm, .41, .44, .45 and larger cartridges take large pistol primers. However, every rule has an exception and I have seen .45 ACP brass that took small primers, but it is rare. There are a very few handgun cartridges such as the .500 S&W that take large rifle primers.
A good loading manual will tell you what you need to know.