I have been using the Lee 356-102 mold with no seating problems whatsoever with the .380. It drops a nice short bullet that doesn't go too deep into the .380 brass. I have never counted, but I estimate I have loaded a thousand or more of them and they shoot just as well as any other bullet in my Ruger LCP. And they are way cheaper than jacketed bullets.
Regarding losing .380 brass at the range, I think there is some mystery here, akin to the chupacabra and the Loch Ness monster. I can shoot any other caliber and almost always find 100% of my brass, but not with .380. The ants, worms, grubs, or something drag those things down in the ground before I can find them. Some days, 50% recovery is the best I can do.
Regarding losing .380 brass at the range, I think there is some mystery here, akin to the chupacabra and the Loch Ness monster. I can shoot any other caliber and almost always find 100% of my brass, but not with .380. The ants, worms, grubs, or something drag those things down in the ground before I can find them. Some days, 50% recovery is the best I can do.