Use the load data for any 165gr bullet. You should be starting at well below max and building up from there, so you'll be ok. You don't necessarily need to use load data given for a particular bullet, just keep safely below maximum for any bullet in that weight.
My favorite manuals are: Lee Modern Reloading, Sierra Rifle & Handgun 4th, and the latest Lyman. I'll use data from any one of the three on bullets whose manufacture and make they might not even mention.